Saturday, June 28, 2008

Need your help

Hi Guys,

I write today to ask for your help. A close friend and colleague has been diagnosed with blood cancer and is in urgent need of a bone marrow transplant. From what the doctors have told us, the transplant itself seems like a relatively simple process - pretty much like a blood donation. However, the common perception that bone marrow transplants are painful makes it difficult to find donors. In this blog I have summed up the exact requirement, and I request you to spread this message to as many people as you can - through email, Orkut, Facebook - anything you have at your disposal.

If you want to help out, please, please leave me a COMMENT ON MY BLOG (RAMKAPOOR.BLOGSPOT.COM) WITH YOUR NAME, EMAIL AND MOBILE NUMBER. You could also mail it to ram.writes@gmail.com.

If your blood group is A Positive, and if you are below 50 years of age, you could be a match. What's important is that you need to be willing to donate bone marrow. Like I said earlier, modern technology has made the process itself simple and almost exactly like a blood donation. Once we have your contact, we will arrange for a simple blood test to find if you are a match. When the bone marrow match is confirmed by the doctors, we will arrange for the transplant of the marrow itself, which will happen in Vellore, Chennai, India. The patient's family will arrange for all expenses to be paid. All they need is 2 days of your time (one, to travel to Chennai, and one, for the transplant itself).

The operation could happen anytime after the 10th of July, 2008. Need your help friends. The more people we reach out to, the more chances we have of finding a donor. Forward this message to everyone you can and hopefully, we can help a family in their hour of need. Please come forward guys and try and help save a life.

Keep smiling,
Ram
http://ramkapoor.blogspot.com

57 comments:

shruti reddy said...

Hey Ram,hope your back pain is fine.its really touching that u have come forward to help your friend in the hour of need.im sorry that i myself cnt help as A+ isnt my BG.but i will surely try n help.i will let u know if i find somebody willing for it..V'll all pray for your friend...God bless....take care.....

shruti reddy said...

dont worryyyyyyyy

Anonymous said...

Hi!Ram
appriciate ur effort to help ur friend but sorry my blood group is not A+ But do what u asked us to do i.e tell every one i know.
take care

Anonymous said...

Unfortunately I am not A+. But will try to spread message to friends & family in India.

Hope that your friend finds a donor soon.

Anonymous said...

Will pass on d msg to evryone i no. hope ur friend finds a donor:)
ill pray for him;)


-Shumi<3

Anonymous said...

Hi Ram,
I'm really sory to say but my blood group isn't A+, but I will spread this message to all my friends and family. Hope your friend finds a donor soon. God bless, and take care.
Kiran

Anonymous said...

Hi Ram,
I sincerely pray and hope that ur friend/colleague gets help at the right time.I will surely pass on the message to everyone.

Please do tell him/her to pray.Prayers have the stength to bring about wonders.I will do the same.

Take Care of ur friend,urself&family,
Regards,
Radhika

Anonymous said...

Dear Ram,


I most sincerely pray and hope that your friend finds a donor as soon as possible. I am sorry that i cant help as my blood group is not A+. Hope that he recovers fast. Will also pass on the message.

Supriya.

Anonymous said...

Unfortunately, my blood type is not A+. But will keep your friend in my prayers. Does the universal donor blood group not work for this? Please confirm..
Will pass on the message to friends and family in India..

Thanks
Sangeeta

Anonymous said...

Dearest Ram:

I appreiciate the effort you are taking for your friend. I will pray for your friend and your friends family to have the strength to get through this. With faith in God I think anything is possible.

Will pray for you all.

Anonymous said...

Hi Ram,

Hope your friend finds a suitable donor, God willing, he will definately get better.

Take care.

Anonymous said...

I would say GET WELL SOON to ur friend. i could help i would have helped but unfortunatly my BG dont match. Take care xxx

Anonymous said...

Hi Ram,
I am not A+ but i am O+ if that would help your friend then let me know.
I will pray for your friend and his family and may he find a donor soon.
Take care.

Anonymous said...

Dear Ram

I will pray for your friend I hope he finds an bone marrow donor in India. My blood group is A+ and I am willing to help out.

Take Care
SS

Anonymous said...

hey ram, this is a crazy person who has been your fan from the days when your serial nyay was on... i was too small then, but after that seeing your work on ghar ek mandir and then on a few other works on sony. And my god in Monsoon wedding, the single appearance was enough... Kasamh Se is an addiction more than probably a doped person. You rock man, you would be wondering as to what my age is...?!! i have just walked out of my teens... Enjoy Yourslf and you are the best... got no more words to describe how it feels to communicate with a person whom i adore everyday...!!!

take care,
Sai Baba will take care of your friend.
Bow to Shri Sai, Peace be to all.


Love you loads,
Namrata Mantravadi

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popeye said...

Hi Ram,
Cancer is one of the most painful diseases not only for the one suffering but for the family of that person too. I am speaking from experience coz I watched my mother fight it for a year and eventually succumb to it. That was 5 years ago and it was the most traumatising experience for me I was 22 then.
I speak from the heart when I say I am touched by your concern for your friend. I wish and pray he /she recovers and goes ahead to live for many many years. Its touching that you care so much so as to use your resources to help out. Having gone through the experience I pray that the patients family have strength and courage and do emerge winners and fight the cancer.
My blood group is not A+ but I will try and pass the message out to as many people as I know.
Have faith and pass the same onto your friend .. having faith helps find strength and that is some part of the battle won.
My best wishes to your friend and his family. God bless you for helping another in times of need.

Auditi said...

Hey Ram,

I'm really sorry that I'm of no help to you right now as am not A+. But I'm AB+, if can help in anyway please lemme know.

But yeah I have posted the message in all my profile's- facebook, orkut, crazefm & all & will post it in india-forums too. If I get someone will immediately contact you.

Though I'm not sure how many people will come forward cause nowadays very few people really helps someone without own motive.

Will defo pray for your friend. He/She will GET WEL SOON!!!

& yeaa you definitely doing a great thing. :)

Ba'bye, Take Care
Adii

Anonymous said...

Hey Ram

This month my parents and I lost two friends who were fighting this.

My blood group is A+ and I am willing to help out.

May God give you and your friends family strength during this time. I hope he finds a donor soon.

Take Care

Mamta

Auditi said...

Sorry for posting again. But totally forgot my Ma is A+. But she has some health problems & she's 46/47.

She's suffering from problems lyk- high BP, vertigo & problems related to these so I'm not sure she can help or not. But will definitely consult her doctor & let you know.

Anonymous said...

Just wanted to say that its better if there is any contact no or email adress where people who can help can contact.

Its better as many won't might not be comfortable declaring their name or email on blog which is open to all.

Anonymous said...

HI Ram!
I am sorry to hear about ur friend
but since I live out of India, there isn't much I can do except pray.

Anonymous said...

Hi Ram

Hope your friend finds a match pretty soon. May God bless the person for a speedy recovery. Will keep him in our prayers.
You are making a fantastic effort for your part, am very appreciative of this as a fan. You deserve an round of applause for this, take a bow...!!

viji

Anonymous said...

Hello Ram
appreciate ur effort to help ur friend..but my bloodgroup is not A+..will pass on the msg to my friends n family..will pray for ur freind..take care
Ps-i saw Hiten askin for a donor too..u guys r doing it for the same person rite?

Sreemoyee said...

Hey Ram, i'm so sory. my bg is not A+. bt i can spread this messege to all my relatives. i'll pray for ur frnd. hope he'll b fine very soon. & i want to appriciate u for this effort. take care.

Sreemoyee said...

Hey Ram, i'm so sory. my bg is not A+. bt i can spread this messege to all my relatives. i'll pray for ur frnd. hope he'll b fine very soon. & i want to appriciate u for this effort. take care.

Anonymous said...

v'l all pray 4 ur frnd...
sorry dat i cant help..but i'l try 2 help by spreading dis news...
dont worry...v all r praying 4 ur frnd!

Anonymous said...

Hey Ram!

My blood group is indeed A+ and im willing to help out! But im in Singapore! :( hmmm

I'll pray very hard that your friend gets a suitable bone marrow donor soon! and he/she will get well soon! And may good see his/her family through this really tough phase of their lives!

Take Care

Anonymous said...

Hi Ram, hope your friend finds a donor and recovers soon. I can only pray for him. cant be of any help as I am not A+. but will sure ask freinds and family who are A+ to contact the person n help.

Sam

Anonymous said...

hey guys,if ur blood group is A+ then email ram kapoor at ram.writes@gmail.com. he has mentioned the email id in the blog.
efforts appreciated ram.

Anonymous said...

Hi Ram,

I pray your friend finds a suitable donor soon. Will pass on ur message to as many people i know in India. Hopefully someone will come forward soon.

Taz

Unknown said...

hey ram,i admire ur sincere gratitude towards ur friend..n i appreciate it..i cud have helpd bt sry my blood group is not A+..dnt worry u'll surely get somebody 2 help ur friend..n as far as on my part i'll surely tell evryone whm i knw 2 help ur friend...akhir ache logon ke saath hamesha acha hi hota hai..i'll pray 2 god 4 ur friend..god bless him!!

polly said...

Great cause. Sorry am B BG otherwise would have flown across. Like others, will ask around. Hope u guys are successful - have seen Ronit Roy, Hiten and now ur blog. It's good to use ur celebrity status for humane causes. Keep it up and don't lose hope, though I'm sure time is of essence.

Anonymous said...

Ram
today in my evening prayers i'll include your friend and his/her family ,thats the most i can do .When in school we were told that god is closest to you when you are in pain so never stop praying or believing in him when you are in pain ,i know its better said than done but believe me i've been through this ..to see your most loved one in pain and just watch them go away not able to do anything i faced all this two yrs back and before i could reach out for help everything finished .i'll pray to God that they find help
Shweta

Anonymous said...

Dear SS, Mamta, Shahina - how is Ram going to get in touch with you? Please mail hmi your mobile/email IDs. Ram - all the best Sir

Anonymous said...

hi ram
i pray for your friend and for his family.i hope he gets suitable donar ASAP.

Anonymous said...

Hi Ram ... so sorry to hear about your friend... hope he finds a donor soon ... and may Allah bless him and give him the strength to overcome this situation ... hope he gets better soon...

Holly ...

Anonymous said...

Hi Ram.. How's u?? I hope ur back pain is fine.. I hope that ur friend will be fine soon.. dnt worry.. and i'm a big big big fan of urs.. i really love to watch Kasamh Se.. And I see it just for u.. U look damn smart.. m eager to meet you.. but i'm from ahmedabad.. wenever i come to mumbai i wish i always wish i can meet u.. but i know i'll meet u once, dnt knw wen but i jst hope.. i'm crazy for u ..

Anonymous said...

I hope ur friend find a suitable match soon and recover soon.i can only pray for him.


now coming to KS,I am sorry to say but KS turned into a 3rd grade cheap show.I never saw such a worst character like Jai-bani on television.
Jai walia is a womeinser.he just know to produse kids with different women.
bani ,less said the better .The mahanta ki Murti.
Jai never loved bani.but bani always loved Jai and suffered
JW just want women:-pia nahi to bani sahi bani nahi to meera meera nahi to pronita sahi.
JW is dead character.how can you play such henious character .
.

polly said...

Hey Ram,
Any luck/progress with your request? Positive responses?
Agree with the previous writer about KS; it is just going downhill again with this revenge story taking for ever and the new generation not likeable at all. Writers must be aware no-one really likes even idea of yucky-Vicky being JW's son, but he has obviously slept with Psycho to assume that he IS his. Evil always has longer days & more musti than Good in E(ee)K's serial. Pnt/B is irritating with her mahaanta- she can't even say a bad word against yucky-Vicky's cowardice. JW doesn't even TRY to make Gng behave in more civil manner. Just how many months are they going to drag this story of revenge before we actually SEE the revenge??? Can JW come up with some intelligent schemes to outwit Psycho - since he has spent 25 yrs with her he should be able to do that??? We want him to find out truth about what happened to B - the character of B deserved that much at least. After today's epi, I feel like going infront of Kali Ma and saying 'if you punish this Devi, B, for absolutely nothing with constant, long separations and horrid comments, what hope have us mere mortals'??
My God! They gave a line to Sidharth yesterday! Where do all the characters disappear to when Psycho is sunnaoing the Walias and showing her true self?? A house full of people but no-one hears the important things. Kamaal hai! Left shoulder still hurting from torn muscles, so will sign off here.
Chalti hoon, Take care & hope your back is better now.

Anonymous said...

Hope your friend gets well soon. Not much comments on Kasamh Se, nowadays it's just so Yuck!!! Jai Walia has Countless number of kids from countless number of women!!! I also agree with the previous two writers.

Anonymous said...

me too....how da hell can jai n meera hav a son??
n now JW started having feeling 2wards pronits also??...i mean he doesn't know dat she's bani...so how can he like her??
anyways pls save kasamh se!!

bharti ghosh said...

hi,

hope u urself are fine and ur family grt. was feeling low myself for the past few days, so writing late...

i m O-, bt u may find out if tht helps.

nt doing dhritarashtra is a gud idea.

take care,

bharti

polly said...

Shame about Mahalaxmi race course being burnt down - so much history up in flames in minutes.
Good Psycho spent night in jail! Will Pnt bail her?
The story raced ahead when, b4 this leap, JW slept with B, got her pregnant and she delivered baby within one epi instead of over months. Now, it's taking ages for JW to realise/find out Pnt B, for Psycho to get her just desserts, for the person on other end of Baba's phone to be revealed...
Jidhar bhi dekho, violence hi violence on tv - news, serials, reality shows,....
Why were the Walias moved from their old set?? It's being used in some other EK serial. The new one looks like awful.
Do you wish, seeing the promos of Mahabh.. that you HAD taken part?
Actually, like most of your fans, would like you to play main lead always - not as an old man of 70+ though!
Any luck finding a donor yet?

Unknown said...

Hey Ram,

I agree with Polly to some extend, with Bani you had child in one episode but here over two months Meera is still hanging around...anyway the sending of Meera to jail was childish, the same inspector going in and out of Walia Mansion doesn't recognise Meera, that too a business woman to reckon with and catches her like a petty thief, not insulting enough for the crimes Meera has done...philhal I am not here to analyse the episode but to inform you that your show is no where in the top 20 list of TRPs which you should be worried about as you are so committed and once again the creatives have turned Jai Walia into a show piece, even as they show brother - sister feeding each other in jail, it no longer pulls our heartstrings, as we cannot connect with Gen X, Pronita's methods of revenge are too amaturish, it is only Jai Walia who can pull up the TRPs. Please ask the creatives to pull up their socks and write something for him, for a change....regards, Tinni

Anonymous said...

Hi Ram,
Hope that your friend is holding steady. Do tell us if there has been any progress in the bone marrow match.

As for the serial, I am enjoying it, only thing is, I would want the creatives to make Jai Walia more involved with Pronita in the planning and revenge.

As for the TRPs, I am sure that more than us, you would be knowing a better picture. I sometimes feel that the two systems of TRP measurement, Amap and Tam are vastly different. Are the TRPs actually giving a true picture?

Anyway, all the best to you and your family and your friend too.

Anonymous said...

Hey Ram,
so sorry to hear about your friend. I'm in Singapore and I have no idea what my blood gorup is. I hope your friend gets a donor soon. I will definitely ask around in facebook. It is so sweet of you to help your friend in time of need. Will say a prayer for him. Take care.

nadia

Anonymous said...

Hey Ram,
so sorry to hear about your friend. I'm in Singapore and I have no idea what my blood group is. I hope your friend gets a donor soon. I will definitely ask around in facebook. It is so sweet of you to help your friend in time of need. Will say a prayer for him. Take care.

nadia

Anonymous said...

hi ram i hope ur friend get well soon

as for KS concern,the show is just a 'sick drama' right now.
i truly hated this 16 yeasr leap.but KS is all about leaps and blooper and JW's kids with different women.
creatives aren't dong any justice to this much awaited leap also.it almost more then 2 months but there is no connection between Jai-pronita still,no connection between Kids-pronita.
pronita's revenge turned into a cheap comedy.JW is doing nothing. creatives have proved again & again that JW only knows marrying or produsing kids .
and the biggest diappointment of the show is Vickey's character.Meera had killed JW's kids and Meera having a kid with Jai after killing two innocent kids is just sick and disgusting.it is just too hard to digest and i cannot accept Vicky no matter if creatives make him super possitive or even that vickey kills meera too.



I am happy that you are not doing Dharatrashtra

take care

Unknown said...

Hi Ram,
This is dipti frm singapore.
It is really sad to hear tht ur friend is suffering frm cancer.
My blood group is B+..
But I really appreciate ur effort for finding a donor for ur friend.
I surely pray to god tht he gets a donor and get well soon...
Tc...Ram...
God Bless U...

shruti kankani said...

hey ram, i am a great fan of your .and as i heard this about your friend i was too sorry to say that my blood group is is'nt a .but i will try my best to find and i will pass this msg to everyone.i wish i could have that blood group.sorry.
and pls. don't need to be worry .everything would be all right soon and pray to sai baba ji.

Anonymous said...

Hi Ram,

I'm really sorry but my blood group is no A+. Anyways hope ur frind will find a donor. good luck and god bless him. u r the greatest actor ever!!! my whole family adores u. love kasamh se!!! But still GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Hope u found a donor and ur friend is okay!!!

priyanka said...

Hey Ram....
i hope you are fine

Anonymous said...

The writer of ramkapoor.blogspot.com has written a superior article. I got your point and there is nothing to argue about. It is like the following universal truth that you can not disagree with: The greatest threat to any computer is a determined three year old with a screwdriver. I will be back.

attrika said...

Not connected to the post but just wanted to express my appreciation of your acting in bade...

I am not a fan of the regular monotonous saas bahu serials but your project and chemistry with sakshi tanwar has got me hooked into it and you have proved yourself as a very talented, genuine and disciplined artist.

Wishing to see you more often on television. Its a delight to have you in the acting industry

:P